Character traits and aspects can be revealed by

Indirect and direct characterization

Example:

Example: “The patient boy and quiet girl were both well mannered and did not disobey their mother.” Explanation: The author is directly telling the audience the personality of these two children.

Character traits and aspects can be revealed by the character and what the main character has to say or the actions that the main character does

Hello!

Love is not something you should feel although the feelings are a nice part of love. Love at first sight has always been considered dangerous because it is usually looking at the looks of the other person instead of who the other person is on the inside. By dating for 9 days only it is hard to know if the love is real or if it is just something done for pleasure. Love is a hard concept to understand and if understood incorrectly, could ruin one's life forever. Keep this in mind.

There is no answer to your question because I do not know you or him.