What is the differences between war and murder?

In war there are massive casualties not accounted for. The soldiers didnt really matter to the country that was invading. they were just in the way of getting to their end goal... where as murder is usually targeted towards a single person with a vendetta.

Game stage

Explanation:

According to George Herbert Mead a child gains self awareness by going through the following stages.

Preparatory Stage: A child copies others and judges the reaction of others without understanding much of the roles they are playing

Play Stage: The child takes significant roles in other's lives and understand what role they are playing.

Game stage: In this stage the child learns of the role they are taking in the broader context of society.

Hence, the question is describing the child's game stage