I'm doing a paper on beauty expectations for women (how society expects women to look and how women themselves expect to look), i don't know how to start it does anyone have any idea

Start by stating what you think about it, or ask your family members their opinions. This starts your paper strong. If you want, make a claim with the first sentence I wrote. Give a little information, and you have an opening paragraph. Next, you can state your reasons. Then take those reasons and go more in depth about them, with each having it's own paragraph. This is how I write papers at my school, but feel free to tweak this a little.

Hope I helped!

~Sunflower :)